I grew up basically on stage t. My mother was a model when I was little, so I was introduced to that world very early. My first job was as a ring hand at a bridal fashion show when I was 9 years old. Later I went to the fashion show of the ball and tried to dress myself up at the wedding.
Finally, I worked as a fashion editor for a glossy magazine in New York City. I want to say that I grew up in the fashion circle, love fashion, and know how important fashion is in the dating world. I know there are a million "what to wear on a date" articles, but I want to put in two cents.
1. Take a shower on the date
I can't believe I have to solve this basic concept, but make sure you've just had a shower. Also, make sure your nails are clean and manicured (yes, she will check). You want to show your best self.
I know there is an "I want her to see the real me" mentality, but that's the future. If she shows up in sweatpants and dirty hair, you may have quite a negative reaction. Show your concern and do a little bit of dating.
I also suggest you have your hair cut in advance. When we change our appearance, it will make us feel confident and beautiful. If you are over 25, please leave your $15 hairstyle. Find a decent, mid-level barber or salon and pay at least $25 to $30 in cuts. There is a big difference. You may not have noticed, but I promise she will. For very important events, a $50 reduction will make you look great.
Facial hair is a style choice, so you can keep some if you have a good trim. Sometimes I like to shave and sometimes I like to be sloppy, so it's up to you. But if your beard is speckled or different in length, choose a smooth one. These are bad examples. These are good examples.
2. Find out your style
There are many different styles of men that look great, so basically you want to highlight your personality or nature. Style is definitely not one size fits all. There are people in Portland, Kansas and New York who dress up and date, and it could be a big difference.
The outside world reflects the inside world, so you want to bring your inner things to the outside. At its simplest, if you're an outdoors type, don't try tight jeans. If you live in a beautiful suburb, maybe you are not suitable for this rough appearance.
Identifying and dressing style is a lifelong skill, so if you're not sure what it is or how to dress, don't worry. You can start with standards and build from there. A beautiful pair of jeans and a blue button or golf shirt are usually suitable for any situation.
3. Make sure your clothes match and should be clean
Let's talk about the details of the clothes you wear on your date. Again, I don't have to say that, but make sure your clothes are clean, stain-free and in good condition. Yes, it's cool to have some ragged jeans or jackets but make sure they're meant to be, not overdressed in rags.
All the trousers must have a belt. It not only helps keep your pants, but it's part of a complete outfit. The color of the belt and the color of the shoes must be the same or complementary. No brown belt and black shoes.
Now that we are talking about color, socks should be the same color as your shoes. They can be colorful and fun, but never white socks. White socks with dark shoes are the last thing to do. Like, forever.
Since we're talking about shoes, make sure they're clean. I personally don't like to wear sneakers on a date, but if you like, make sure they are first-class, stain-free and match your clothes. I think a pair of black flats can go with almost any outfit. If you buy another pair of brown ones, you'll look good in everything.
Buy a shirt that suits you. If you're not sure, ask the woman in the store to recommend one. It's a big thing to have a shirt (and clothes) that suits you.
If it's jacket weather, buy a decent medium weight brown or black jacket. No wool, no chart, no big, fluffy winter clothes. You can always wear several layers under it.
4. Choose the right accessories
I have to say, I hope men can wear more clothes and accessories like women. Women have earrings, hats, rings, necklaces, hair accessories, bracelets, bags, and decorations. Yes, men can wear all these things, but we have to make sure it's elegant and doesn't make you look like someone old Johnny Depp wants.
In other words, accessories can make you jump from a standard suit to a super fashionable or elegant suit. If you don't know what to do, start with a beautiful watch. Other accessories to consider include a stylish belt, colorful socks, a square that you can put in your pocket if you wear a blazer, funny cufflinks on a French Cut shirt, and a cool tie.
I also have some simple necklaces and rings that I don't wear very much, but they are very interesting when. If that's what you look like, earrings are good. A beautiful wallet or wallet can also play a big role.
However, make sure that your accessories are in line with your style. You don't want to wear a cowboy hat in a suit, or a bright gold watch with a lot of money. You can try it and see how it is.
5. There's a conversation
I think one of the best things is to be able to cause conversation. A lot of times we are a little anxious or don't know what to say. A physical test on us gives us some stories to talk about and tell.
For example, every time I go on a holiday or travel place, I like to grab a small thing. It could be a tie, ring or shirt. In this way, if someone comments on it, it will give you something to talk about and help tell the story of who you are.
It can be something you get on your journey or something interesting that attracts people. Sometimes on a casual date, like going to the beach or volunteering, I wear an interesting T-shirt. It can arouse people's curiosity and make people laugh. You can also watch people secretly check you and find out what it is.
When I was young, I also liked to find interesting clothes in Salvation Army, goodwill or local thrift stores. I like to try to breathe new life into old and fashionable clothes. My friends and I even had an ugly shirt night, and we all bought the worst shirt we could find and wore it out. Some of us are waiting in line to talk to us all night!
Finally, I worked as a fashion editor for a glossy magazine in New York City. I want to say that I grew up in the fashion circle, love fashion, and know how important fashion is in the dating world. I know there are a million "what to wear on a date" articles, but I want to put in two cents.
1. Take a shower on the date
I can't believe I have to solve this basic concept, but make sure you've just had a shower. Also, make sure your nails are clean and manicured (yes, she will check). You want to show your best self.
I know there is an "I want her to see the real me" mentality, but that's the future. If she shows up in sweatpants and dirty hair, you may have quite a negative reaction. Show your concern and do a little bit of dating.
I also suggest you have your hair cut in advance. When we change our appearance, it will make us feel confident and beautiful. If you are over 25, please leave your $15 hairstyle. Find a decent, mid-level barber or salon and pay at least $25 to $30 in cuts. There is a big difference. You may not have noticed, but I promise she will. For very important events, a $50 reduction will make you look great.
Facial hair is a style choice, so you can keep some if you have a good trim. Sometimes I like to shave and sometimes I like to be sloppy, so it's up to you. But if your beard is speckled or different in length, choose a smooth one. These are bad examples. These are good examples.
2. Find out your style
There are many different styles of men that look great, so basically you want to highlight your personality or nature. Style is definitely not one size fits all. There are people in Portland, Kansas and New York who dress up and date, and it could be a big difference.
The outside world reflects the inside world, so you want to bring your inner things to the outside. At its simplest, if you're an outdoors type, don't try tight jeans. If you live in a beautiful suburb, maybe you are not suitable for this rough appearance.
Identifying and dressing style is a lifelong skill, so if you're not sure what it is or how to dress, don't worry. You can start with standards and build from there. A beautiful pair of jeans and a blue button or golf shirt are usually suitable for any situation.
3. Make sure your clothes match and should be clean
Let's talk about the details of the clothes you wear on your date. Again, I don't have to say that, but make sure your clothes are clean, stain-free and in good condition. Yes, it's cool to have some ragged jeans or jackets but make sure they're meant to be, not overdressed in rags.
All the trousers must have a belt. It not only helps keep your pants, but it's part of a complete outfit. The color of the belt and the color of the shoes must be the same or complementary. No brown belt and black shoes.
Now that we are talking about color, socks should be the same color as your shoes. They can be colorful and fun, but never white socks. White socks with dark shoes are the last thing to do. Like, forever.
Since we're talking about shoes, make sure they're clean. I personally don't like to wear sneakers on a date, but if you like, make sure they are first-class, stain-free and match your clothes. I think a pair of black flats can go with almost any outfit. If you buy another pair of brown ones, you'll look good in everything.
Buy a shirt that suits you. If you're not sure, ask the woman in the store to recommend one. It's a big thing to have a shirt (and clothes) that suits you.
If it's jacket weather, buy a decent medium weight brown or black jacket. No wool, no chart, no big, fluffy winter clothes. You can always wear several layers under it.
4. Choose the right accessories
I have to say, I hope men can wear more clothes and accessories like women. Women have earrings, hats, rings, necklaces, hair accessories, bracelets, bags, and decorations. Yes, men can wear all these things, but we have to make sure it's elegant and doesn't make you look like someone old Johnny Depp wants.
In other words, accessories can make you jump from a standard suit to a super fashionable or elegant suit. If you don't know what to do, start with a beautiful watch. Other accessories to consider include a stylish belt, colorful socks, a square that you can put in your pocket if you wear a blazer, funny cufflinks on a French Cut shirt, and a cool tie.
I also have some simple necklaces and rings that I don't wear very much, but they are very interesting when. If that's what you look like, earrings are good. A beautiful wallet or wallet can also play a big role.
However, make sure that your accessories are in line with your style. You don't want to wear a cowboy hat in a suit, or a bright gold watch with a lot of money. You can try it and see how it is.
5. There's a conversation
I think one of the best things is to be able to cause conversation. A lot of times we are a little anxious or don't know what to say. A physical test on us gives us some stories to talk about and tell.
For example, every time I go on a holiday or travel place, I like to grab a small thing. It could be a tie, ring or shirt. In this way, if someone comments on it, it will give you something to talk about and help tell the story of who you are.
It can be something you get on your journey or something interesting that attracts people. Sometimes on a casual date, like going to the beach or volunteering, I wear an interesting T-shirt. It can arouse people's curiosity and make people laugh. You can also watch people secretly check you and find out what it is.
When I was young, I also liked to find interesting clothes in Salvation Army, goodwill or local thrift stores. I like to try to breathe new life into old and fashionable clothes. My friends and I even had an ugly shirt night, and we all bought the worst shirt we could find and wore it out. Some of us are waiting in line to talk to us all night!
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